Einstein is often misquoted as saying:

However, Charles Dickens did actually say:

And Jean Luc Picard (a darned nice guy, played by an awesome guy) said:

Simone de Beauvoir said:

And now it is my turn:

You are the adult in the broken relationship with your child.  It is on you to fix the relationship, and that will require you to change.

Change is hard but I can assure you…