The fact that I think we are on the “right” path does not mean he thinks we are on the “right” path. My “right” is not necessarily his “right”.

Me: Can I have a minute of your time? I would like to ask you a question.
Him: OK
Me: We had a hard time, and I have told you already that I am incredibly sorry for the things I did in that time.
Him: Yeah
Me: Things are better now but it is important for me to know that we are both happy with the direction we are going in.
Him: Yeah
Me: So I would like to ask you a question, if that’s OK.
Him: Sure
Me: Do you feel safe with me?
Him: Yeah. Why do you want to know?
Me: Lots of things have changed for both of us but if you don’t feel safe then other things have to change.
Him: OK
Me: Thanks.